Let It Go (But Not the Good Stuff)
A Basecamp Dispatch on letting go of clutter, compulsion, and my beloved em dash
This week’s Basecamp Dispatch finds me channeling my inner Elsa. No, I didn’t flee my kingdom in wintry angst or belt out any Disney power ballads (you’re welcome). But I did realize I’ve been clutching a bunch of nonsense like a broody hen guarding a golf ball.
So I let it go.
First, the em dash. A well-meaning but mildly soul-crushing editor recently informed me that I should ditch them — apparently, they’re now red flags for AI-generated content. And here I thought AI was just coming for our writing jobs, not our punctuation. I love a freakin’ em dash. Nothing else punches a pause like that long, glorious line. It’s not a hill I’ll die on, but I am dragging my feet on the hike back down.
Second, clutter. I’m slowly cleaning Outdoor Life out of my office space. For months, it’s looked like a Cabela’s exploded in here — camo in heaps, half-tested gear in bins, rods and reels leaning in corners, one rogue pair of chest waders with no known origin. The gear-testing nightmare had even spilled out into the hallway. Purging and organizing is hard work, and more than a little overwhelming, but it feels like a hard reset. Fewer piles means more room for pacing — or lying facedown on the floor, wallowing in despair when the words won’t come.
And finally, the urge to perform on social media. I went for a Sunday hike at Medoc Mountain State Park with my husband and Penny Dog. It was a gorgeous day, with low humidity and coolish temps that felt like so much relief after a long stretch of swampy, hellfire heat. We hiked five miles and didn’t see another soul. I also didn’t take a single photo or post anything to social media. No proof. No content. And you know what? It still happened. Wild.
Maybe this is what freedom looks like right now: fewer em dashes, fewer piles, fewer posts hoping to matter to people I wouldn’t invite to supper. More walks. More quiet. More pages that don’t need an algorithm’s approval. Less of what drains me. More of what fills me: Penny Dog, hot coffee, chickens clucking judgment from their perch on the henhouse roof. And me, trying to hold onto what’s worth the grip — and letting my inner Elsa take care of the rest.
Yes, I’m also a fan of em-dashes and walks without having to chronicle everything on social media. Congratulations on your settling back process. Hope you’re finding peace!
Alice, love that sense of freedom that you have described so eloquently. My office/den sounds a lot like your writing space. It does feel good to get rid of things we no longer need and sometimes it really does make room for more things that we desire. Kudos to you!